I've now driven my Alpha and my wife's 07 Adventure and yes the Alpha has more guts, but with the cruise control on she'll shift like mad on normal overpasses (I just drive with cruise control off anyways). I do have a rather weighted down Alpha with an ARB Bumper, Winch, Roof Rack, and 33.5/34.0 inch tires (crazy 295's previous owner installed), so it's not a stock Alpha by any means.
My driving impressions are the Alpha 5.3L gets up to speed faster vs the 3.7L, but the HP seems to be the main factor. The Adventure has 4.56 gears vs the Alpha's 4.10's so that helps a little, but nothing will change 300HP vs 242HP. I know it's not a huge increase in HP, but with our stock rigs weighing in at 4,700LB every bit of HP helps.
My 5.3L runs a lot hotter than the 3.7L. Normal range with with the PCM of NC electric fan is around 195-210 (going to try some Royal Purple coolant additive to see if it'll lower it a bit). The 3.7L runs 176-195 (it's currently running 195-206 thanks to Auto Zone's 190 Thermostat vs the OEM rated 180..... Already have an OEM/Stant Replacement and will be installing it this weekend). The faster the 3.7L goes the cooler it runs vs the Alpha which runs hotter the faster u go. I know my Alpha runs warmer due to less airflow thanks to the the bumper and winch, but I really wish it ran cooler like the 3.7L.
On the trip to FL in the Alpha I averaged 13.5 to 15MPG fully loaded with 4 adults, my 19month old daughter, and all the vacation gear for a week at Disney World. I stayed around 70-75MPH the entire 14.5HR trip and the cruise control was good until I got to a long over pass or long grade and it would down shift and then upshift kinda quickly. I ended up taking the cruise control off and I was able to get it to cruise over the same terrain without downshifting by just using my foot lol. I almost got 300 miles to a tank, but I didn't wanna pass a gas station and then run dry so I was filling up when I still had 3 gallons in the tank.
The 3.7L is bone stock and already my wife is getting 15.5MPG minimum to and from work. We went to a baby shower a couple of weekends ago, and it was probably close to 19MPG because unlike the Alpha the gas gauge barely moved and after 180 miles round trip I still had almost half a tank of gas. It's a bit of a snail to get up to speed vs the Alpha (not as much fun sound wise for sure), but it'll get ya there. I've had no trouble hitting the speed governor of 99MPH in the Adventure. We do live in the flat lands of SE Texas, but I think it would handle the TX Hill Country much better than my 05 TJ/LJ's which had the 4.0L straight six. I wanted another Alpha, but since it was going to be my wife's D/D and family car I wanted something a little more efficient.
I also find the 3.7L a breeze to change the oil vs the Alpha!!! With the 3.7L the filter is in a tight spot, but they put a nice little drip tray to help ya. On the 5.3L the oil filter is in a silly tight location, and once you unscrew it and let it drain out grabbing it, and trying to make it into the box or on a rag is a joke. Twice I've changed it, and twice the silly filter goes flying out of my hands and right into the oil pan making a lovely wave of oil go all over the place..... I also haven't found a single filter wrench that fits the filter properly. I am now just using K&N oil filters with the nut on the bottom so I just use an adjustable to install/remove it. The plugs were easy to change on the 3.7L vs the 5.3L which thank goodness I have small hands or the once plug by the power steering pump on the 5.3L would still be there lol.
Each setup has it's up's and down's. I prefer the Alpha since I love a V8 engines rumble/HP, but I also like how the 3.7L runs cooler, and gets better MPG. Only thing I wish my Alpha had was a rear locker. (59.00 switch pack might just make me feel better with a fake locker button haha). I also prefer the rubber steering wheel and cloth seats of my wife's Adventure. My leather steering wheel is starting to show some age and I am seriously thinking of buying a rubber one to swap it out with.
I'm happy with having one of each and I think they both suit my family perfect. Mine will be modified as much as possible, while my wife's will remain stock, but still being able to tackle some fun off road trips.
I test drove an 09 H3 X that was for sale in Beaumont, TX before I ever thought about buying my wife her own H3 and it was a total POS!! It couldn't shift to save it's life, it had a lovely oil burning smell, sounded like a diesel, and it had no power at all. They wanted 23K for it and I walked away going OMG what a POS vs my Alpha. Then I drove another 3.7L and it drove close to my Alpha. Then I found my H3 Adventure and it rides great with plenty of power. After my tune up it idled smoother, and my wife has no complaints coming from a 4.7L Grand Cherokee.
I am kinda curious what a magnaflow muffler would sound like on the 3.7L in place of the resonator and running straight pipe out the rear (like my Alpha which sounds quiet when you want it to be and loud when you want it to be, but I don't wanna take a chance and turn into a rice burner sounding H3.