When starting from a stop, tranny shifts smooth in every gear, but when slowing down to about 1 or 2 mph (stop and go traffic) after it downshifts, it always shifts real hard into 2nd from first when up shifting only. If you stop, it shifts smooth, but any rolling or moving at all it shifts hard with a loud clunk and you can feel it. All other gears are fine and very smooth. 65,000 miles, oil looks clean good color, no burnt smell. I do not have the lockers, and this is when in AWD. Could it need the trans software flashed as it may be shifting to late? or at wrong speed? I had a 93 F-250 did the same thing, but it waas all the time not sporadic like this...any thoughts? Thanks for any suggestions or help. I have searched here and found nothing about it?