And the story comes to and end for now...
P0304 came back again. Pesky little Sh*t. Flipped spark plugs around(they are brand new, but just to check), flipped coils around cleared ECU, RESTART... Same thing... P0304. Fuel Injector has connectivity and isn't an open circuit(so this is good). Is it a bad head? One more thing to check.
If you remove the top part of the air intake manifold, leaving the throttle body connected, and removing the flex hose from the air filter box to the air intake manifold, you CAN run the motor. It will go into a fault mode at idle and assume sea-level for altitude(because it knows that it isnt getting levels from the MAF sensor that make sense) and use that air to fuel ratio calculation to run the motor, which isn't perfect, but the motor will run smooth enough. My problem was, I had a rough idle even then, and it was still throwing CEL P0304.
With the top part of the air intake manifold off, and the engine running, I played a little bit with the cable harness going to the coil of the #4 cylinder.... whrmmmmmmmm smooth as a whistle. bent it back to the shape it was in before, and rough idle again. held it up tight a little bit and whrmmmmmmm smooth as a whistle. SO i'm looking at a problem with the wiring going to the #4 coil, and it's somewhere in-between the main harness and the connector, actually for a fact, its inside the connector, probably at the crimped leads. This is going to be a pain to fix, as I dont know where to get those same leads to re-do the connector. And I dont know of anywhere online that sells just that connector by itself.
I suppose I'll call a dealership parts dept. tomorrow and check my options... for now, zip tied it into place, and the engine is purring like it was new.
**UPDATE** - Just found on RockAuto.com Ignition Coil Connector w/Leads 3-Way Female Black - ACDELCO 15306431 $34.79