I'm a bit bias, but that should be obvious by my signature.
Crank the torsion bars to 23.5, buy my shackles and high clearance leaf spring mount, mount 35 inch tires on the factory rims, get it aligned, go have some fun, and save your cash for something more important.
I think extend bump stops are a bad idea, the ride is much smoother with the vehicle not resting on the bump stops. The front end dive is not even an issue for me, and I wish no one ever brought it's such a non issue for me. Bilsteins are cool, but a waste of money if you ask me, the stock work perfectly fine. I'm absolutely against aftermarket rims, unless they have beadlocks, because they do nothing but look pretty, might as well buy a hood scoop, or a wing.
As for tires, you really can't go wrong, their all good companies. Just make sure to keep them balanced, and air down to 14-16 psi when going off road.
If you really want to lift it, start looking at Solid axle swaps for the front end and spring over axle swaps for the rear.