When I had Land Rover Discoveries (Series I & II), the seats had what appeared to rear passengers as "handles" on each side of the headrest. In reality it was just a design vs fully functional feature, and the result was broken loose seat frames. I had to fight to keep my seats in good shape because every new passenger thinks "oh cool handles" lol.
On my Alpha's big family vacation trip to Disney in Orlando, FL my mother in law on several occasions did the same thing with my seats getting in/out. I had to kindly say to use the big handle vs the seat... Being trapped in a car for 14.5hr one way was bad enough, but I didn't need my seat snapped in half.